Pushy Dreamers

How do you describe your success? Gaining top position in your office? Having 10K salary per month? Having more time for your dearest? Living fullest and do whatever you want to? Getting a financial freedom and no-more money worries? Success comes in all different shapes and sizes to almost everyone with one common dominator. It takes lots of work to reach it.

Regardless how you describe the success is, there are many ways to outreach your goal.
We put only 10 tips that everyone can use to reach their goal. These tips are ways to
better you as a person, a proven ways to reach your goal and success

1. Dare to dream and dream BIG

To success you must have dreams, inspirations, a goal that you set high up beyond
your reach and have desire to reach it. You will love every single effort you exert on
the way to make it happen.

Your life and success is in your hands, to make of it what you choose. So while you
can choose and dream – dream it BIG. All successful men are big dreamers. They
imagine what their future life could be, and they work every day towards their distant
vision, goal or purpose. Let others lead small dreams, but not YOU.

2. Never Give Up

Your success is a process. To reach it you must persevere. It like a journey you take -
never give up, don’t stop. You would never know if your success is another one more
step and only one-step to make it happen. If you give up, you’d never know.

3. Be Happy

Success always steps side by side and walks together with happiness. Learn to enjoy
every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside yourself
to make you happy.

A positive mind and happy, upbeat attitude will help you succeed. A person living in
a happy state generally gets much more in just everything they do. Bad attitude pulls
you down and won’t help you meet your goal.

4. Have Courage

Have the courage to stand up for what your dream and have strong desire to do it. It’s
easy to dream – but if you don’t have the courage to make it real you’ll be just
another dreamers.

If you don’t fight to reach your dream now – ten years from now you’ll be more
disappointed by the thing that you did not do than by the one you did do. So have
courage and just do it.

5. Stay Motivated

People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do
things. When you believe and motivate yourself – you have the first secret of success.

To keep you stay motivated, find inspiring and motivational tapes, seminars, ebooks,
books or any means you could get your hands on, and turn to these motivational tools
to help you keep on track.

6. Be Passionate

You need to have passion. It’s much more easier do thing you have interest in and
having passion for what you are doing will make you put more efforts into it.

7. Fight Your Own Fear of failure

Failure doesn’t mean the end of your dream. Your success depends on how your treat
your failure. You must do the thing that you think you can’t do. You will gain
strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look
fear in the face.

8. Patience

Success takes time. If your dream is BIG and takes all your efforts to achieve, it ’s
worth your time and patience to be in the moment you’d say, “Eureka”

9. Be Thankful

No matter how small your accomplishments you made, be thankful and appreciate
yourself. Not only this will keep you in motivated but will also help you stay humble
and not quickly satisfied with your success. Continue striving for your real success.

10. Take Good Care of Yourself

Being successful means taking good care of yourself, physically, mentally and
emotionally. Without taking proper care, you will end up struggling in all aspect of
your life.

By Eking Huang written for ezinearticles.com

Don’t believe what your eyes are telling you. All they show is limitation. Look with your understanding, find out what you already know, and you’ll see the way to fly.
Richard Bach

We love running into people who can give us a better perspective on dreams and help us push forward. Netic, who is Game Rebellion’s MC stopped to share some words to help keep the inspiration alive! Thank You Netic!

Every wednesday we enjoy pushing you affirmations, why? Because we believe we are what we speak, we are what think and most of all we are what we believe. And what we believe determines what we can do. It is our belief that the power of positive thinking will always taking you further than any I cant’s or impossibles, but it is something that takes practice, patience and great effort to achieve. It is through repetition & determination that we begin to become aware of what we speak and see how it actually does make a difference and how easier it becomes to turn goals into realities.

So what powerful words will you push forward with to see your dreams become a reality?

I can’t speak for everyone else but these are the things that I instill in my daughter on a regular basis. I feel if I set the best examples she’ll follow and look for the same qualities in people that she will have in her circle.

1. self respect

2. Independence

3. Respect others

4. I give her flowers and we have Daddy/ Daughter dates

5. I’m open and honest with her , so that when those “hard” questions come up ,it  will not be hard to talk to me about them.

6. I listen to her opinions

7. I allow self express…to a point of course

8. I show her love and affection

9. I tell her ”I love you” every day!

10. I tell her, look into peoples eyes when talking to them.

11. I teach her to be honest

By Tony Everette

My names Preach and I’m going to tell you the truth. I am a comedian. Been one all my life. I just didn’t know it until 2007. Life is funny like that. No matter how hard you run away from what you are it will follow you no matter what. I didn’t start to perform until 3 years ago. I did the whole “safe” path thing. Got my bachelors at North Carolina A&T. Got my MBA at University of Phoenix.The whole time I felt the gnaw of my “real” self the whole time in the pit of my soul.

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Even those who are bold enough to explore and share their dreams, still have obstacle to conquer. Alexandra Cespedes who created a successful name for herself as an artist, there was still something that was needed to create; a better self. Here Alexandra share’s a personal story of falling in love with her art again, photography and most importantly herself. (Excuse the Bells)

Christina Cindrich is a Producer, Host, Actress, News Anchor, and Sports Reporter. She has appeared in Spiderman 3, C.S.I., Desperate Housewives, Boston Legal, Las Vegas, Frasier, According to Jim, and many more hit shows. She produced and hosted an internet sports webisode, was a News Anchor & Sports Reporter at Mountain Television Network in Boone, North Carolina, and is currently a Producer/Host for WealthTV in San Diego, CA.

Top 5 DO’s…

1. In order to stay completely focused I have to make some serious SACRIFICES. I moved to a new city for my job where I don’t know a lot of people… I get lonely sometimes, but this is all a part of my plan to succeed. If I lived near all my friends, I’d be distracted! I also have a 3.5 lb Yorkie that for 6 years had never left my side, but because my job requires me to travel so much, she spends a lot of time in Pittsburgh, PA with my parents.

2. I have no responsibilities besides my job. Which also means NO BOYFRIEND! Being in a relationship takes work and I don’t have time at this point in my life to commit my time & attention to anyone. That might sound selfish, but there came a point in my life where I just needed to focus on me. I’m single, independent, and rely on myself. That in itself is empowering and keeps me driven.

3. I STAY POSITIVE. My job requires 120% from me and at times I can go into complete overload. I look at stress as a positive force in my life that gives me physical and mental strength to keep pushing toward my goals. That makes the feeling of accomplishment much greater once I’m able to relax.

4. I believe that in order to follow your dreams you have to really know what it is that you want! I’ve always had a PASSION for entertaining. As Confucius said, “Find a job you enjoy, and you’ll never work a day in your life”. There is a lot of truth to that! Even dream jobs can be hard work, but it’s much easier when you’re doing something you love!

5. At a very young age, I was taking dancing, singing and acting classes. In high school, I left school early to go to my theater classes downtown and didn’t get home until 10pm at night. It’s so important in any field to get the appropriate TRAINING necessary to succeed. I’ve paid my dues (and still am) to get to where I ultimately want to be!

Top 5 DON’Ts-

1. As a TV Host and Actress, I speak my feelings, ideas, and thoughts. My personality and true self is revealed to strangers. This can make me pretty vulnerable to harsh CRITICISM AND HATERS. It’s really important to not take anything to heart. Obviously, that’s easier said than done but I try to take criticism constructively and make haters my motivators! I’m grindin’ too hard now to let the “noise” at the bottom distract me! (On that note, I never want to be famous…I just want to be successful!)

2. DON’T PROCRASTINATE. I used to procrastinate getting a job application out, going to the gym, reading a script, etc. I think I also just had a lot of distractions around me. Nowadays though, everything I do is productive. (for the most part!) There isn’t time to wait around!

3. I DEVOTE 90% TO MY WORK , 10% TO MY PERONAL LIFE. I lived in LA for 9 years before moving to North Carolina and San Diego. LA is my playground and it was distracting for me. I got a job offer a couple months ago back in LA but I had to turn it down. If I want to remain completely focused, I need to be separated away from my comfort zone. It’s a sacrifice, but it’s necessary for now. When I need to recharge my battery or get some hugs, I go to LA for the weekend then get back focused Sunday night for the week.

4. I don’t have anyone NEGATIVE in my life. Gossip, debates, venting, etc. is enough to make anyone lose concentration and I have no interest (or energy) for any of that! I navigate around the melodrama and just focus on the bigger picture! I made the choice to not entertain people or circumstances that aren’t in harmony with what I want to achieve!

5. I’m my own WORST CRITIC. I’m very detail-oriented and a perfectionist so when I do something wrong I just try again and keep pushing. I’ve been passed up on a lot of jobs and I’ve made my share of mistakes but I only use them to learn from. I won’t let myself get discouraged from chasing my dreams!!!