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Why Affirmations Work

8 Sep

The reason why affirmations work is because affirmations are the ‘code’, the ‘language’, the natural way your mind does business. Self-talk – the traffic of your brain – starts out as an affirmation from the outside. These affirmations are either created by you or given to you by others. They are the statements that you repeat to yourself on a daily basis.

When new affirmations are introduced into the ‘mix’ they will either be rejected or accepted depending on whether or not they align with what’s already in your mind. The word to describe this is ‘congruence’. Congruence simply means to agree or to correspond. If something you hear or read fits with your world view it will be quickly absorbed into your inner world. The opposite is also true if something does not fit with your ‘map’ of how things are, it will be quickly rejected.

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10 Tips to Boost Your Success in Life and Business (tips)

7 Sep

How do you describe your success? Gaining top position in your office? Having 10K salary per month? Having more time for your dearest? Living fullest and do whatever you want to? Getting a financial freedom and no-more money worries? Success comes in all different shapes and sizes to almost everyone with one common dominator. It takes lots of work to reach it.

Regardless how you describe the success is, there are many ways to outreach your goal.
We put only 10 tips that everyone can use to reach their goal. These tips are ways to
better you as a person, a proven ways to reach your goal and success

1. Dare to dream and dream BIG

To success you must have dreams, inspirations, a goal that you set high up beyond
your reach and have desire to reach it. You will love every single effort you exert on
the way to make it happen.

Your life and success is in your hands, to make of it what you choose. So while you
can choose and dream – dream it BIG. All successful men are big dreamers. They
imagine what their future life could be, and they work every day towards their distant
vision, goal or purpose. Let others lead small dreams, but not YOU.

2. Never Give Up

Your success is a process. To reach it you must persevere. It like a journey you take -
never give up, don’t stop. You would never know if your success is another one more
step and only one-step to make it happen. If you give up, you’d never know.

3. Be Happy

Success always steps side by side and walks together with happiness. Learn to enjoy
every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside yourself
to make you happy.

A positive mind and happy, upbeat attitude will help you succeed. A person living in
a happy state generally gets much more in just everything they do. Bad attitude pulls
you down and won’t help you meet your goal.

4. Have Courage

Have the courage to stand up for what your dream and have strong desire to do it. It’s
easy to dream – but if you don’t have the courage to make it real you’ll be just
another dreamers.

If you don’t fight to reach your dream now – ten years from now you’ll be more
disappointed by the thing that you did not do than by the one you did do. So have
courage and just do it.

5. Stay Motivated

People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do
things. When you believe and motivate yourself – you have the first secret of success.

To keep you stay motivated, find inspiring and motivational tapes, seminars, ebooks,
books or any means you could get your hands on, and turn to these motivational tools
to help you keep on track.

6. Be Passionate

You need to have passion. It’s much more easier do thing you have interest in and
having passion for what you are doing will make you put more efforts into it.

7. Fight Your Own Fear of failure

Failure doesn’t mean the end of your dream. Your success depends on how your treat
your failure. You must do the thing that you think you can’t do. You will gain
strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look
fear in the face.

8. Patience

Success takes time. If your dream is BIG and takes all your efforts to achieve, it ’s
worth your time and patience to be in the moment you’d say, “Eureka”

9. Be Thankful

No matter how small your accomplishments you made, be thankful and appreciate
yourself. Not only this will keep you in motivated but will also help you stay humble
and not quickly satisfied with your success. Continue striving for your real success.

10. Take Good Care of Yourself

Being successful means taking good care of yourself, physically, mentally and
emotionally. Without taking proper care, you will end up struggling in all aspect of
your life.

By Eking Huang written for ezinearticles.com

Why We Love Affirmations

1 Sep

Every wednesday we enjoy pushing you affirmations, why? Because we believe we are what we speak, we are what think and most of all we are what we believe. And what we believe determines what we can do. It is our belief that the power of positive thinking will always taking you further than any I cant’s or impossibles, but it is something that takes practice, patience and great effort to achieve. It is through repetition & determination that we begin to become aware of what we speak and see how it actually does make a difference and how easier it becomes to turn goals into realities.

So what powerful words will you push forward with to see your dreams become a reality?

Setting Examples For A Daughter To Follow

31 Aug

I can’t speak for everyone else but these are the things that I instill in my daughter on a regular basis. I feel if I set the best examples she’ll follow and look for the same qualities in people that she will have in her circle.

1. self respect

2. Independence

3. Respect others

4. I give her flowers and we have Daddy/ Daughter dates

5. I’m open and honest with her , so that when those “hard” questions come up ,it  will not be hard to talk to me about them.

6. I listen to her opinions

7. I allow self express…to a point of course

8. I show her love and affection

9. I tell her ”I love you” every day!

10. I tell her, look into peoples eyes when talking to them.

11. I teach her to be honest

By Tony Everette

The Power of Positive Affirmations

25 Aug

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To a large extent, your happiness and your success in life is determined by the thoughts you hold in your subconscious mind. Positive affirmations are powerful statements that are used to build a positive internal dialog. By consistently repeating positive affirmations to yourself, you create positive subconscious thoughts. These new, positive, productive thoughts will replay automatically throughout your life. Each time they replay, they’ll reinforce the new positive inner-image you have of yourself and your life in general. By replacing old, negative thinking with new, positive subconscious thoughts you’ll be able to access the endless resources of positive energy you have within yourself. And you’ll be able to create a new, positive reality for yourself.

When you use positive affirmations, let yourself really feel them. Fully experience each one. Enjoy them. Assume each affirmation to be true in your physical reality. Feel the positive emotions that are appropriate for this positive reality. This will help you make positive changes more quickly and automatically.

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Anslem Nwso Samuel

24 Aug

Creator of www.NakedWithSocksOn.com Anslem Nwso Samuel talks to @PushyDreamers about dreams, how blogging to share his thoughts brought him to be known as a relationship expert and of course a few tips for us to take along our journey!

Love is in the Air…

24 Aug

While some people may over  look the idea of being in a happy relationship a dream, we sure didn’t. Dreams come in all shapes and sizes so we didn’t want to leave out those who are looking to build a better relationship with the one they love. Christopher Lee Espinal shares his story, tips and advice on why he’s latching on tight to this red head beauty!
I honestly could not begin to write the ten commandments for a great relationship. I could try but it would be planned and organized and that really isn’t what a relationship is about. I think the key to my current relationship is the fact that we are very spontaneous and also because I know my Lover-Rama-Mama for almost four or five years now. I think our friendship before our relationship had a lot to do with the success of us actually being together. This helped tremendously because we kind of already knew what the hot and cold buttons for each other were. I think it helps when people can break through the ice of a first encounter on a platonic level before becoming intimate physically or mentally. It helped us a lot. I knew after three years of being friends what makes her laugh and what she enjoyed or didn’t enjoy and once I knew that I just kind of played along. I think it is important when two people fully understand each other: what they expect from a relationship and what the boundaries are. As friends, the conversation is much more open and free. That’s how I found out all of this vital information that helped me lock her up! (I’m kidding I still don’t know everything).

How To Turn Your Goals And Dreams Into Reality

23 Aug

Do you want to turn your goals and your dreams into reality?

What a dumb question, everyone wants to achieve their goals and make their dreams come true. Sadly, most people fail to achieve what they want in their lives.

Do you know why?

The answer is pretty simple, they don’t align themselves toward their goals and their dreams.

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Push Forward Quotes

19 Aug

We asked and we received!  Recently we called out to our PushyDreamers on twitter to tell us what quotes inspire, keep them motivated and why? Thank You @ShhDontTellNE1

There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make a difference in this world: Those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid that you will succeed. –Ray Goforth

This is a fav because it just seems so true.  You always have to wonder what someones motives are any time they try to hinder things you’re doing that can have a positive effect on your life.

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear”

This is a fav because any time I find myself nervous about a new venture I have to remind myself that I’m doing this for my future and that things really aren’t as scary as they seem.


Dana Free – Affirmation Wednesday

18 Aug

Hi my name is Dana Free. I’m 26yrs old. I was born & raised in New Jersey. Fashion has always been my thing from a very young age. It has always been my Dream job to work @ the iconic Saks Fifth Avenue. As little girl, I was obsessed with their ever changing windows. It became a tradition every year to see the Holiday windows @ Saks Fifth Avenue.

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